At present, I am on a hiatus from training chattels personally as I am working on a few books, which you can find links to in my book page. If you are exceptionally interesting or intelligent and require distance training it is something I might consider. Emails outlining fantasies will only responded to without an initial tribute. Your first contact is your first point of training, please be respectful.

For BDSM & Dominatrix Services in Central London, U.K.  Email me M@elenahexthorn.co.uk or use the contact form  to make an appointment.

Mistress Hexthorn:

I am a practice traditional English styles of BDSM including complex, consensual roleplaying games. Whether you are a beginner or advanced I am always happy to play with intelligent open minded submissives.

I have the inherent abilities of a true sadist, but it is my express desire to keep my playmates safe and neither psychologically or physically damaged.

 I require a 50% deposit (via net / in person) before any communication or session can be confirmed.

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Session costs

Webcam Domination is now available. Postal / Email Domination and training is available at a rate of £150 per 3-4 page letter. I will keep records of your progress and give you new tasks. I also am proficient at teamviewer slave life management and financial domination. I also provide chastity services over distance.

Price upon application.

Services NOT offered are as follows

Any form of nudity on my part or sexual intercourse, I do not personally provide relief or intimate body worship. M@elenahexthorn.co.uk

WEBCAM

Webcam Training

I am available to provide webcam training at reasonably short notice. This is especially fun if you like being dominated and controlled. I enjoy humiliation and I also enjoy giving slave tasks to do for me in front of the webcam. email me M@elenahexthorn and we can get started.

psychological

Psychological Domination

Achieve a close, intimate psychological relationship with your Mistress over time. Find ways within a BDSM environment to be trained and controlled entirely by the will of your Mistress. You will put your most intimate fantasies discreetly in my safe hands and we will explore them together.

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BDSM

I enjoy giving restraint, rope bondage, psychological domination and correction from every stage including beginner working up to advanced BDSM scenarios. It can be scary for first timers to explore their fetishes and feel safe, but I take your well being very seriously and will do everything I can to ensure you can explore your fantasy side with a view to feeling good about it.  I enjoy getting to know a submissive and my main object is to ensure that they can have fun with someone else who likes to play and have good experiences.

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Breath Play

This much misunderstood area of BDSM, when you play carefully with someone experienced about constricture can be a fast track to nirvana for some people. Whether you have tried breath control or breath play before I can provide a secure and experienced environment for you to experiment. It is imperative that you never play breathplay games alone. Beginners up to advanced breathplayers are welcome to come and play. Use the contact form to receive a set of medical questions to ensure your safety.

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Beginners & Novices

If you have never been to see a professional Domina before this is a perfect opportunity. I am happy to train or play with you, providing a selection of short safe BDSM practices scenarios so that you can explore what interests you without any physical or psychological damage. What interests you about visiting a Domina and what scenes you wish to pursue is something we can briefly discuss before the session, although it will be refined by myself.

caning

Caning

Beginner to advanced caning sessions are available. This can be combined with fantasy roleplay.

cfnm

CFNM

Clothed female, naked male. You can be given simple household or secretarial, cleaning etc.. tasks and duties as a house slave to Mistress whilst being trained the correct deportation in the company of a Mistress. Domestic domination is something I enjoy immensely. I like having a slave around. I enjoy what slave can do to help me and the relationship is very close knit.

chastity

Chastity

Remote and on site chastity monitoring is available. Slave can be kept locked up in chastity, recorded and denied orgasm for longer than session time. Please email me to discuss remote, postal and or real time chastity training.

CBT

Cock & Ball Torture (CBT)

Can involve, weighting, waxplay, trampling, direct discipline and tolerance training over time.

CP

Corporal Punishment (CP)

Tying and teasing is nice, but sometimes a good solid course of heavy punishment might help work some of your frustrations out,  or mine.

CROSSDRESSING

Cross Dressing

Feminisation, in private or optional public display, make up application and transformation into a female slave or sissy is available. Please use the contact form to discuss.

STYLIST and Interior Design

Stylist & Interior Design

Whether you are in a fashion or interior rut, or if you are not confident about what to wear out to fetish clubs. I can easily help you move past old habits and assess what looks good on you either in daily life or in an alternative scenario. I have a voracious appetite for fashion and interiors. I simply need to know you budget and charge a flat day rate for this service. I work predominantly in the London area. I have a background in fashion and also costume design. I can help you transform yourself into the best possible version of yourself, and help you take advantages of your strengths visually. Having someone honest to help you bounce those ideas off of is a major asset and can make a big difference psychlogically. This service is for people who want to take a personal step forward and does not have to be included as a domination scenario. Rather than just tell you what colours look good on you, we will actually go out and find the things that look good on you. I understand male and female tailoring and fashion immensely. My mindset focusses on making a person feel like the best version of themselves and to allow them to learn themselves how to best present themselves to a social or business environment. I am especially good at alternative fashion, but it’s not my only skill by any means.

I have a way of unpicking the way you live now in terms of interiors, and reworking your space so that it fits and compliments you and the easiest most effortless way to live. Having someone on your side who will listen to what you need to move forward into now can be a big psychological breath of fresh air.

The rate for a day of either stylist work or interior design is £250 payable in advance. It’s extremely liberating and beneficial to have a second pair of eyes guiding you. Contact me via email and we will get started. I am quite experienced at this. I will need to know what your fashion or interior budget is in order to assess what is possible.

ONLINE

Online slave Training

You can connect with me for online slave training via my skype account londonfetishfair

Slave training online remotely is available worldwide. This is a ot of fun and very discreet. It can involve anything from simply discussing your fantasies to enjoying the voyeurism of my requirements of you to carry out tasks for me online. This can be either by email M@elenahexthorn.co.uk or via skype londonfetishfair You could find yourself  being given a set of directions to comply with before reporting back for your next mission. Please take into account that we will discuss your fantasies first to ensure you are able to explore your fetishes in a beneficial way. It’s important to me.

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Makeover and Event Photography

I was an event photographer at my fetish event and took 1000’s of pictures. If you require a full TV make over / photographer I can do that. Photography can be incorporated as part of a fetish scene, but I have also photographed alternative weddings, funerals, events and other things that required someone who was skilled enough to frame the most important shots of the day without being in the way. Occasionally people require funeral photography in order to get closure or to facilitate the experience of the day to people who are too far away to attend. (Just in case you are wondering) I also have a background in film photography and film production. I am easy to work with and very sympathetic to the lining up the shots that are important for big events. Gallery images are available and a day rate can be discussed.

DOMESTIC

Domestic Servitude

By far one of my favourite forms of domination is to have a domestic servant at my heel.

Stripped naked, examined and given a great deal of tasks involving everything including serving tea, hand washing laundry and household tasks to being overseen and corrected whilst scrubbing floors or made to do domestic tasks. It is important to learn how to do domestics chores efficiently and you will be rewarded for that. I enjoy domestic service a great deal.

UNUSUAL FANTASIES

Unusual Fantasies

I provide discussion and development of new and unusual fantasies. Obviously everything must be consensual and possible. I am open minded about some fantasies that other people may not understand. My only rules are that everyone must be over 18, human and it must be consensual. But if there is something that you have found hard to discuss before, I am a good person to speak to about it and will attempt to plan out the facilitation of that fantasy.

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Discussion

If you are interested in discussing your fantasies about fetishism. I am happy to conduct either a private conversation or we can discuss things over skype. My rates are similar to my domination time. But what I offer is guidance and support to those who are not quite ready to take the step towards interacting with a Dominatrix. No matter who you are, our discussions are 100% private and confidential forever. I am happy to do that to allow everyone the chance to explore all parts of themselves safely. In this capacity I am your confidante.

OWNERSHIP

Ownership

Develop a close personal ownership scenario with your Mistress. Through regular training and correction, servitude and obedience, you will experience the freedom of being owned and managed by your Mistress and handler.

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Confinement & Overnight stays

Overnight stays are available, be confined to your Mistresses whims or be made to sleep at her feet.

Financial

Financial Domination

A form of Goddess worship for some and for others to enjoy the dark side of the female psyche. Providing gifts and money or errand shopping for a Mistress to bring her more pleasure is an interesting and challenging area of the BDSM lifestyle. You can provide for Mistress, pay her bills, give her beautiful things or make her life more comfortable. You can even put her in your will. This can be built up over time with discussion to ensure your Mistress is kept happy in every aspect of life. This is ideal for those who wish to partake in a long term relationship/ friendship with me.

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Domestic Fantasy Play

Mistress will establish set boundaries with you within the environs of a domestic fantasy roleplay scenario. You will be trained to serve me in my domestic environment and ensure everything on a domestic level is to my standards.

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Forced Feminisation

Domination by enforced feminisation. This can involve a psychological roleplay scenario or direct feminisation in the dungeon. Online enforced feminisation is also available. Please use the contact form to elaborate what you have in mind.

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Smoking Fetish

Be used and abused as an ashtry, have smoke blown in your face. Present Mistress with cigarettes and be trained to light them correctly.

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Tease and Denial

Enjoy the torturous merry-go-round of tease and denial.

humiliation

Humiliation

Another fascinating area of the BDSM lifestyle. Public or private humiliation as directed by the Mistress is available. This is an opportunity to plunder the depths of your own inner fears and weaknesses and gain absolute pleasure from the honesty of disgracing yourself for the Mistress’s amusement.

Interrogation

Interrogation

A fascinating roleplay scenario, where correction and bondage are combined with the extraction of your deepest secrets. Discretion is absolutely paramount for this kind of roleplay.

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Foot / Boot Worship

Boot Worship, trampling, torment or foot care

Care and worship of Mistress’s feet. Taking Mistress to get a pedicure or being maid to rub and care for Mistress’s feet, coupled with foot based games are available.

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Chastity Instruction

Online correspondence or one-to-one scrutinisation, correction, recording, keyholding, rating and correction is available. This can be coupled with many of the other services offered. Humiliation could be advised as a complimentary fantasy.

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Mummification

Cling film bondage with subsequent exposure and torment is offered.

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Nipple Torture

From beginner to advanced play. Finding your level often takes time but is best done gradually to ensure the maximum enjoyment can be prolonged over time.

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Public Humiliation

Location will be discussed and directed adequately before deployment of activities. This could be anything light to something such as foot or leg worship in public to perhaps something a little stronger. Recurring visits from slaves are preferred before venturing out into public play, so that we can understand each other.

ROLEPLAY

Role Play

Roleplay can be anything, but it can be most useful in fantasy escapism. You can also re experience a difficult point in life and associate a new sexy memory with it. Whatever you have fantasised about being can be acted out in the confines of a controlled and safe environment.

RUBBER

Rubber Fetish

Being confined in latex and transformed into a rubber slave or gimp. A shopping trip for the correct fitted latex suit may be required that will meet with the Mistress’s approval.

RUINED

Ruined Orgasms

Edging and destroying an orgasm can be an extremely addictive state of mind. This aspect of BDSM can be enacted over and over to create a sense of deep frustration and has ties with chastity correction.

SENSORY

Sensory Deprivation

Achieve a sense of powerlessness in a BDSM scenario with the removal of sight, sound, touch or all three. This is guaranteed to make you hypersensitive and heighten your senses.

SERVITUDE

Servitude

Crawling, bowing, scraping, enjoying the denial of knowing you are useless and having that confirmed for you by a powerful Mistress. In servitude, you will be corrected until you carry out tasks to the Mistresses standards.

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Shoe Worship

Worship of the high heel, trampling, heel torture and high heel training response are available. Mistress enjoys gifts of new extrmely high heels from time to time.

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Shopping Trips

Take Mistress out into town for a day of shopping for shoes, lingerie, leather, jewellery, gloves,  makeup etc. Public humiliation can be coupled with this scene as you will be made to search for sizes and asks sales assistants embarrassing questions. Alternately you can just be a pay slave and help the Mistress achieve her whims and desires. Either way, it will be a fun day out. Discretion is assured.

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Sissy Training

A more extreme version of enforced feminisation, a shopping trip may be required to correctly fit and garment you with a pink, frilly, escapist costume that will turn you to and extremely girly slave.

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Slave Training

Be trained as the Mistresses personal slave. Learn how exactly to serve the Mistresses in her needs and requirements from the most simple level up to the more complicated desires that please her.

smothering

Smothering

Can be combined with breathplay. Smothering can bring about a light headed and racing feeling that combines a sense of being turned on mixed with anxiety, which can bring about a massive release.

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Socio-Political Fetishes

The eroticisation of those things which make you feel most uncomfortable can be not only a massive turn on, but also can serve to break out of long-standing fears and nightmares. This type of fantasy roleplay can help relax certain anxieties and associate them with more erotic areas of your mind.

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Spanking

Over the knee, or restraint-based hand spankings incorporated into a BDSM scene are offered.

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Corset Training

Be measured and fitted for the correct corset. This will require an initial consultation and possibly a shopping trip. You will then be tight laced into your correct size corset and learn how to deport yourself correctly.

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Gimp Training / Boxing

Be made into a ‘thing’ that does as it’s told. With discussion, slave can be turned into a leather or latex clad gimp, have their identity temporarily removed and be locked in a box when not needed for use. Please use the contact form as this is a more involved form of BDSM.

dollification

Dollification

Become Mistress’s toy and pet dolly. Using enforced feminisation and latex girl masking you can become a doll for the use and abuse of the Mistress.

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Sexual Blackmail

Have you ever fantasized about what it would be like to be sexually blackmailed? Experience the thrill of someone knowing your secrets and using them to extract either degrading images of you or goods and services in return for Mistress’ silence.

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Tease & Denial

Another game that can be played throughout the session coupled with other types of roleplay. So close, yet so far away. Always promising, always denying, until you feel like you are going to go out of your mind. It’s a lot of fun.

data

Data Domination

This service is available worldwide via email or webcam. Slave can have periods of complete personal control over periods of hours, weeks or months. Personal, financial and life control can be discreetly and carefully scrutinised and managed. This is a scenario I recommend building up slowly and carefully over time in order to establish the correct level of trust. Use the contact form to discuss.

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Torture

Straight, unadulterated grinding correction, mental and physical torture by way of different devices and tailored to your development as a slave or submissive.This has to be built up to whilst your limits are assessed and more than one session would be optimal.

trampling

Trampling

High heel / heavy soled trampling, crushing and ball busting. Beginners to advanced welcome.

verbal

Verbal Humiliation

Be stripped and verbally humiliated as Mistress plunders the depths of your own sexual insecurities. This is your chance to break out of your own darkness by playing with the things that trouble you most.

waterboarding

Waterboarding

Advanced players only. Gradual training must be adhered to first. I have over 20 years experience and will be able to help guide you through some of your darkest fantasies safely.

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Wax Play

Exploration of your skins hypersensitivity is one of the benefits of waxplay. This is an undamaging aspect of bdsm that will make your heart race.

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Whipping

Light, beginner to heavier beatings and whipping training, correction and enjoying the warm glow of a carefully executed whipping to your bare bottom or perhaps some other areas of your body.

I do not offer any sexual services, intimate body worship, wrestling, or hardsports